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you look at ancient pictures in books on Tantra or Tao you will notice
that men and women look as though they are dancers or acrobats. You
can imagine from the pictures that music is playing during the lovemaking,
you can imagine slow and gentle movements of hands on the skin…Tantra
is a science about energy, but it is also an art. Art is never dogma.
Each artist is unique because the definition of art is to create something
new, never seen before.
I believe that Tantric massage should not have any patterns. It
is the massage of a loving heart and sensual touch. Every touch
of love brings peace and comfort. Just as a mother plays with her
baby, differently every time, from her loving heart, to make the
baby feel safe, loved and happy, so tantric massage does for us.
Also tantric massage is not something which can have certain patterns
because each person is designed differently. His or her sensuality
is that holistic body: skin, nerve endings, central nervous system,
various glands and hormones, emotions, thoughts, all woven into
one, constantly changing, affected by life events. Tantric massage
is very giving, masterful work of a Tantric Master who reads that
unique holistic body through touching it and, like a talented sculptor,
polishes all “sharp corners” into a beautiful, blissful
and happy person.
The vocabulary and language of Tantric massage is touch. Tantric
Massage uses gentle touch methods which have a profound therapeutic
effect: relaxation, stress relief, balance of sexual energy (excitement),
it stimulates the hormone system and gives psychological and physiological
freedom from sexual tension.
Tantric massage could have the form of erotic dance, or sliding
movements one on the other’s back, or gentle stroking on the
skin in very slow motions, or just standing in a close embrace lost
in each other’s scent. This is what tantric massage is all
about; massage of your senses by being a part of another person’s
world. Tantric massage is a cultivation of love, but not a search
for more physical triggers to gain arousal.
However, arousal should be present right at the beginning of the
massage. Tantric massage is a massage where sexual energy is the
main element. Arousal is vital. Arousal is the fire which heats
the body slowly and steadily, creating more and more heat which
vibrates the body deeper and deeper. Because of this Tantric massage
has an unique healing power.
I believe that couples should heal each other from
every day stresses by Tantric massage. I teach Tantric massage to
couples and individuals. I teach all possible varieties of tantric
stimulation.
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