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My experience has brought me to certain ideas. Maybe they are different from how other people teach Tantra or Tantric sex. Maybe not. Nevertheless, please do not associate my work with the work of others. Tantra is not dogma. It is method. Method could be very much influenced by the personality of the teacher. Compare it with the of learning languages. You can spend years listening to one course and never speak the language and you can take another book or CD and after a short period of time you feel, wow, you understand…
You can read about my method below. My approach is very artistic. I am sorry but I do not make it fun! I consider sexuality as a very serious thing requiring concentration, total commitment, creativity and a loving heart. It is like playing piece of classical music. It is no fun in there, but it is so beautiful, so breathtaking…

You both have had a long life behind you, you have absorbed and stored into your mind and into your body many negative experiences.

Sexuality has a very fragile nature. If sexual life is terminated it is not easy to restore it. Usually it is the woman who escapes any physical contact. Why? I have given my suggestions in my articles.

It is clear that if one partner, who is more aware of sexuality, tries to persuade another one to “break the ice” the other partner feels forced into it. It takes a real effort to understand that your own sexuality is your engine of life and your light of happiness. The barrier of denial is strong but it is possible to get through it by just establishing the positive thoughts about the sexual pleasure and love which were experienced in the past.

I have a wide experience as a woman. I have been in sexual contact with many men, not for fun, but for research. I tried to understand why and where a man and a woman go wrong with sexuality and grow apart when in the first place they were passionate about lovemaking. My knowledge did not come from books or lectures, or workshops on Tantra. That knowledge can only come from the body, from the senses and from the loving heart.

Tantric sessions would not work for couples who have a lot of psychological issues about their relationship in general which can upset sexuality a great deal. These couples need professional relationship therapy first, including my consultation on sexuality matters. Tantric sessions are meant for loving and caring couples who are free and relaxed with their bodies and who want to increase the potential of the sexual energy exchange and deepen their love and connection with each other.

My Tantric sessions are direct physical and emotional experience. Music and the atmosphere of intimacy will bring romantic and erotic feelings to both of you.

I introduce you to the tantric touch and how to tune into each other’s sensations.

During the session you will pass through several stages. I show by way of demonstration, stage by stage, leaving you both at times one-to-one. I will introduce you to massages, to erotic dancing, to channelling energy…
Each couple is different. Each needs a different approach just as in counselling or psychotherapy. My aim is to help them to reach the destination which I call “peace and comfort with each other”. Believe me, sexual excitement is not the main requirement for long lasting love. Peace and comfort create a higher physical arousal in the long run. People cannot be creative when they are overexcited. Peace and comfort opens the door to a world of total freedom, raises your subconscious and leads you to transformation.

Tantric sex has no aim as such, it is like having a “warm bath” but this state is difficult to achieve. In my practice during the sessions a lot of men have realised how much tension and pressure a man holds in his body and passes to his partner. A lot of women eventually saw how a woman can help her partner to relax by leading him. Only when both people are free with experiencing sexual energy flow (at the same level of arousal, not “burning” level) will they start to transform ordinary sex (peak sex) into tantric sex (valley sex).

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